When He’s Not Ready for Commitment… With YOU

  You’ve heard the saying: It’s not that a man doesn’t want commitment. It’s that he’s doesn’t want to commit to YOU. Ouch, right? A punch to the gut. And sometimes a man isn’t ready for commitment, and there is no “right woman” for him if he’s not ready. Yet, more often than not, when a man stalls on moving forward with you, it’s because you aren’t the one for him. I see this situation a lot in my work with […]

He Finally Signed His Divorce Papers: So Why is He in a Funk?

Dear Christie: I bought your book Dating the Divorced Man, and thought it was a great book.  Of course, every situation can’t be discussed within the constraints of a book, and I have one of those “situations”. I met a guy over 4 years ago and we became friends. He was married with 2 children and had been having many problems with his wife for many years. During our friendship, he became interested in me, but I was never attracted to him; […]