Online dating can be a different experience for introverts. On the one hand, the “putting yourself out there” and the making small talk with complete strangers can prove taxing to the introvert. On the other, online dating can be achieved from the quiet and comfort of your own home and involves only 1-on-1 communications, both of which favor the introvert. And, in the end, as I’ve said 100 times before, online dating is a useful vehicle to meet other singles you wouldn’t normally meet. Introverted or not, sometimes getting online is the solution.
I’ve been slowly working on my “dating advice for introverts” materials. It includes a separate section for online dating. So when Mashable (Mashable!!) contacted me recently to ask if I’d like to offer up tips for introverts dating online, I gave them tips… probably more than they ever wanted :).
Some of these tips are included in the Mashable article “8 Ways Introverts Can Crush Online Dating.” Interestingly, Susan Cain was also a source for the article. She wrote the bestseller Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking. I recently finished it; it’s an excellent book. And I’m a pretty tough critic when it comes to books on human behavior. If you want to understand introversion from every possible angle, all from a scientifically-based standpoint, read this book. Ms. Cain really did her homework.
But for now, read the Mashable article and let me know what you think. And I’ll keep working on those “dating for introverts” materials…