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Attachment Style in Dating and Relationships (Part 2)

Last time, I talked about the origins of attachment theory, including what "attachment" is and how scientists came up with the basic attachment styles. In Part 2, I want to discuss how the basic attachment styles look in adults, particularly when it comes to dating...

Attachment Style in Dating and Relationships (Part 1)

Top of the morning to ye, lassies and laddies. (I couldn't help myself. I just finished reading Outlander and my mind is filled with such things...). So, after my last post mentioned I would do some future posts on the topic of attachment, I got a few comments...

She’s Baaack!

Greetings and salutations, all! Remember me? Christie Hartman? Dr. Christie? Yes, I'm still alive. But if you've forgotten who I was or assumed I was abducted by aliens, it's because the last time I published a blog on this site was 8/7/15. Yeah, that long ago. There...