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“And I can’t begin to tell you how much fun I am having meeting and talking with women. Christie, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.” Gabe

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“If you date online at all, get this book!” Lisa Darsonval

Owner, Santa Barbara Matchmaking

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“There is no other book out there that guides divorced men like Back In The Game does. Another great book for men from Christie.” Robert

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Marriage, Communication, and The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

  So October is communication month. In Dr. Christie's world, that is, not anywhere else. Communication in dating and relationships is important, even crucial, if you want to succeed at them. And I know you do, because successful relationships make life WAY...

Learning to Ask Questions, Part 2

  Last week, I talked about conflict and how asking questions, rather than making assumptions, can make communication easier and prevent problems. This week, I want to delve a little more into this topic and then offer up some tips on the right way to ask...

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  Happy October, everyone. September was devoted to Getting Our Personal Shit Together. We covered fundamentals like taking responsibility for our life, learning to live by our values, and getting rid of self-entitlement. These create an important foundation for...